This is one of my 3rd cousins holding up the pants.
 

As people get older, many of us look back at our lives and have regrets: what we could’ve, should’ve, would’ve done. 

For example, one of my sisters was always on me about the bad choices I made with men (among many other exotic things). For example, she chastised me for years over a man who had been gone out of my life for 25 years! 

She disapproved of how I threw myself into so many other ‘outrageous’things as I lived my life. 

But, recently she said to me wistfully “I wish I had lived my life like you did and do....full on, without fear of consequences. You did whatever you wanted to do no matter what anybody said, but I gave my whole life over to my husband and tried to live through him. I could’ve been so many things and done so many things and now it’s too late."

Don’t be that person. Consider and resolve to be your true and real self every moment. Always be true to you… always be your Real Self! People will love you for it …or at least admire you for being a real consistent dick head.

Big Love & Big Mojo to ya!  Venus