The Juicy News with Venus - "A NAKED WOMAN GETS IN TROUBLE"
Published: Wed, 06/05/13
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For a Reading With Venus'Billie' is crying. "This man and I, we have been friends at work for so many years. I thought he was my really good friend. Lately, he kept asking and asking me to email him a photo of my naked breasts and finally I did. Then he started pushing me hard to have sex with him. I said I wouldn't." ' I'm listening. "Is he married?" I ask. "Yes, he is." "Kids, right?" "3 kids." There is a long pause. "He was my very best friend at work and we had so much fun. But, I don't know what happened. He kept after me to send him even more pictures of my breasts and finally I did and when I sent them I said, 'I am not going to have sex with you!' And, Venus he won't even speak to me, now. He is cold as ice at work and ignores me. I am broken hearted. What is he thinking, what did I do?" Billie is not young. She is 52. But, before you scream your outrage, I caution you to look at your own life and where and how you may have been taken advantage of by a man-or a woman- in a similar but maybe different fashion and why you did something you may now think was really dumb and or, brought you trouble. Or, maybe you have made other really impossible decisions that caused you grief. Was it really your fault or were you brought up without boundaries or not taught correctly about life? "Billie," I say, "whenever we have a phone session, you know I am always honest. I always tell you the truth, even when it hurts, right? I do it, because I want to help you, not to make you feel worse." Billie is silent. I forge on. "When you send a man photos of your naked breasts he is going to think and believe that you want sex with him. That's how men are. And, I have to ask you, why are you sending naked pictures to a married man with 3 kids?" Billie doesn't' have an answer, but I have one. "It's because you're vulnerable. I know how you were treated growing up. You were neglected and now it's so easy for someone who pays attention to you to use you. You trust them and are vulnerable and they know it. This man isn't your friend, he's a predator. He's used you." "But," Billie says, undaunted, "can you go in his head and see what he's thinking, why he's so cold to me, now?" So, I have a little visit with Billie's 'friend.' I find he's angry. He thought he was going to get her to do what he wants and she unexpectedly showed some fire and won't. I tell Billie this and also "He's punishing you." "Oh my gosh Venus, he is, he is, that's just what it feels like!" "He's a sociopath/psychopath, Billie. He has a wife and 3 kids and he's been stalking you on purpose with all his charm." "Oh! He is so charming, Venus. "He thought he had you in his pocket. He only cares about himself and what he wants. Look what he's doing to his family on the sly. He's a predator." "Oh, my gosh, he has a history of doing all this with women at work but I guess I just never thought he would do it to me!" "That's because you see what you want to see when someone is nice to you. You are a sweet person and very sensitive and you were brought up badly. You don't know how to protect yourself. Women like you are easy prey for this kind of man." "Venus, is he sleeping with this young girl at work? She's a cashier." I take a look and this girl is quite young, kind of fat and roly-poly, not so pretty and she's just like he likes a woman; she is vulnerable. An easy catch. I see that he is charming her, paying attention to her and that he almost has her bagged and in his meaty grasp. I explain all this and a lot more to Billie. She takes deep breathes and says she feels so much better and so relieved to understand what happened. "Please," I say, "don't ever email naked photos of yourself to anyone, again. Photos last forever." A lot of us do things that make us wonder about ourselves. We do business with, have friendships with, fall in love with, date and marry people who deliberately hurt us and steal from us, abuse us and even kill us. We do things they ask us to do that we don't want to do. Why is this? I'm non judgmental about these things because I spent a great part of my life living like Billie and now it's my pleasure and profession to help people out of these sticky situations. I'm lucky that I'm a Medium and a Telepath, Empath, etc...because I can dig in and get the facts of a situation or a person. Dead or alive. My job is to help you see clearly and to help you drop the burdens you carry. Here is what Billie sent me after this phone session: "Hi Venus,And days later: |
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