The Juicy News with Venus - "THE WEDDING CAKE WOMAN WHO LIVED IN THE HOUSE OF BEDLAM"
Published: Thu, 07/11/13
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Have you won a reading with me? Find the winner's name somewhere in the following article.I'm sitting outside on my patio, under an orange and pink stripped umbrella, having a Phone Session with a lady named 'Marvela'. Marvela starts our call by telling me that she comes from a very dysfunctional family. She says she and her brother 'Kevin' never got along. Their father was orphaned young and it marked him. Their mom was hooked on medical drugs most of her life. The father has been dead for a long time and their mother died 2 years ago. Marvela has moved far away. "People in my family," she says, "and other relatives, don't even let me know when someone in the family has died! Neighbors will call me 3 months after a death and tell me! "However", she says, "My brother emailed me the day my mother died and told me our mom was dead and for me not to call him or email him, ever. He said, 'Never contact me.'" I thought, "O...K...." Her brother Kevin was left executor, she assumes, and she also assumes she is not in her mother's will. Her mother doesn't/hasn't liked Marvela for many years. Maybe never. A long time after her mother's passing, Kevin sends Marvela a box with Marvela's baby bracelet, her birth certificate and "an ugly photo" of her when she was 4 years old that her mom had yanked off her living room wall when she stopped speaking to Marvela years ago. After that, Marvela tells me, she hears nothing from Kevin until the 2nd anniversary of their mother's death this month, when he sends her an email that says, "Mom's wish was for me to check if you are destitute." Marvela tells me she doesn't know what to make of this email. Should she be mad? Is he trying to hurt her? Why would he say such a thing?! She tells me that after much thought, she has sent him a nice email saying politely that she has a job waiting tables. She hears nothing back. She's chatting with me today because she just can't figure out why her brother wrote such a thing to her. It makes no sense. When I 'look' at Marvela with the blank space in my mind, she looks like a beautiful wedding cake. Inside Marvela I see many tears. The words come to me; 'Your tears have moistened the wedding cake and made it delicious.' I tell her this. We're both quiet for a moment. Then, I hear, 'Marvela, you are a miracle.' What can be made of this? We like it, but what does it mean? When I 'look' into Marvela's 'dysfunctional' family, here is what I see. First, I look at her brother Kevin who is a farmer. "He lives alone, he's single," I say. "And he's odd. People refer to him as 'that odd man, that odd farmer.'" Marvela says, "He is and they do, indeed." I see and know that Kevin has a mental issue and Marvela says, 'Yes there was talk about that.' "He can't connect to other people," I say. "He is socially unable. He doesn't know what to say or how to say it. He just doesn't think or communicate like most people do. He prefers to live and be alone. He sent you that note saying 'Mom's wish was for me to check and see if you are destitute', because what he wanted to say, what he was trying to say was, 'How are you?" "Your mother may have indeed wondered about you and your circumstances, at some point. And your brother remembers that, so he used those words. But, he really meant, 'How are you? How are you doing?' Marvela is much relieved. Now I look at her parents who have passed over. Her father passed long ago, but I can't get ahold of him. I can see him, but it's like he can't connect, like he drifts above us. "Oh, that's exactly how he was in life!" says Marvela. I do a check of other family members dead and alive, and most of them seem a lot like Kevin and his father. And like the mother. Suddenly, I get it. "I know why you are a miracle," I say. "You're a miracle because you didn't get the gene! You came through unscathed by the family gene mutation. It skipped you! You grew up hard in The House Of Bedlam but you are OK and alright and you mentioned earlier that your grown son is wonderful and fine and normal. You didn't have that gene to pass on to him! "Your upbringing and family and all the things you did because of them, to heal yourself and learn how to live with people in a normal way, caused you lots of tears and pain. But, the strange family and the tears built the beautiful white, moist wedding cake that now represents you! You can understand now that your relatives couldn't and can't help themselves with the way they act and treat people. They have some kind of genetic mental quirk or illness ...and you just don't have it." Knowing all this is a great relief for Marvela. It answers many questions and takes away a lot of pain. I'm still looking and listening inwardly and I see something that looks like golden honeycomb. I hear, "You should look for Sweetness in life. You made it through all the Bedlam, you made it through the last mile." Haydee Tanori you have won a Reading with me! Marvela can rest now. She's made it. She can look for the sweetness in life and enjoy herself. There is nothing to grieve over and nothing to prove. She lived in The House Of Bedlam, she survived that life and the experience turned her into a Beautiful, Soft And Sweet Wedding Cake Kind Of Woman. Now is a good time for a Reading with Venus; it's a good time to do something nice for yourself!
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