4/28/13
"Dear Venus, you gave me a great Reading a month ago. I was trying to let go of my live-in BF, 'Chas'. I had kicked him out but was suffering. A girl named 'Linda' had moved in with him right away and you said he was using her as a 'placeholder'. You had a chat with him in his head.
"Since the Reading, they are no longer a couple! They broke up the day after the Reading! (Gee, what did you do, Venus? ;)
"Since the Reading, he and I have been talking again. Not of getting back together, yet. But, I feel a door has opened. Since talking to you I am much more able to understand why he thinks the way he does, and why he did the things he did.
"I have listened to the Reading a few times, and am wondering if the energy of the Mojo or the energy of you talking to him in his head is still active upon listening to it? It always makes me feel good to listen to it.
"I want to thank you so much for the time and energy that you put into this situation. I purchased and read your "Certain Men" book. I couldn't put it down!!! Loved it!!
"I knew that you were the perfect person to help my situation. Remember, I kept drawing the "Consult an Expert" tarot card? x 'Janice'"
6/20/13 But....The Plot thickens...
"I called him this morning. We've been hanging out but now he says it's affecting our small daughter, 'Pammy'. I told him I want to be friends; that we have chemistry that can't be denied and it's my hope to get back together. He said I told him recently that was not a possibility. Which I never did say! He also stated that he didn't want to get back together with me and he doesn't trust me. He says he's lost a lot of love and respect for women, mainly due to me and our past relationship. And that he didn't want to pursue any relationship with any woman. But then 5 minutes later he tells me he's met someone and they have been talking and hanging out.
"I am soooooo confused and disappointed. I don't understand how we had such an amazing Reading and I felt 'we' were still there, then I get this from him today. He only wants to hang out for "special occasions" now. I am stunned and don't know what to do.
Venus, I want to keep hope alive, but don't know if there is a chance with us. Does he really not want a relationship with me??? Any advice would help.
I need a Reading! Janice"
Hi Janice, I am thinking you may have forgotten a few things from the previous Readings. Yes indeed he often thinks of getting back together with you, and you do have some good things between you, but he is very immature and doesn't know what he wants. You are living in hope. He is keeping you up and down and you see what you want to see. Sorry to be so blunt, yet again.
6/30/13-
"I am backing off from the situation for now. I know he's confused, and I think his confusion is affecting my emotions and Pammy's emotions. I am truly looking for my "Prince" and if it isn't him, it's his loss.
"Will keep you updated. Again, thanks soooo much! I have been reading your email and it's giving me strength. I love your energy, girl!
Much love!"
8/11/13
"Venus, I want to give you one last update. Talked to Chas tonight. He says he has never had any hope or ever entertained the idea of us getting back together. That it's not going to happen and he clearly let me know that. I just wanted to let you know, because in our last Reading, you said that he was thinking about it, and that he had hope. I feel like a major fool.
I know that everyone has "free will", but I just wanted to let you know that you were majorly off on that Reading."
Hi Janice, I'm sorry about this, but I beg to differ. I did say Chas was off again, on again and he was thinking about getting back with you. I have been doing this work for 35 years and I know I am right. He's lying to you. He is trying to hurt you because you kicked him out of the house months ago. Also, he is very immature and doesn't know what he wants. But, you will hear from him again and he'll want you back! What do you want to do with that when he does?
8/21/13
"Venus, you were right!! Chas called and asked me and Pammy to go to the beach with him. We went, and it was so much fun! A lot of flirting and he even cooked dinner for us.Then, there was some kissing. All these actions were initiated by him. He told me he can't promise anything and that I "know where his head is". None the less, he did come back, again. He also says we are now dating and are officially back together! I guess that last email to you wasn't my final update. lol :)"
9/6/13-
"Hi Venus, I was hesitant to send the last message about Chas and me officially being back together. I had a weird feeling, but didn't listen. He broke it off last night! It was a real shitty thing for him to do. Said he needs his space. All this after he officially declared us "dating". My heart is heavy.
You were right, though. He was back. He wanted to get back together.
"In our first Reading, I asked you how long I should wait for him. You said that you got the words '6 months' for me to make a decision. The 6 months is up on 9/15. I know that I should take him on his word and run. I know he will be back again. This is killing me! Wondering if there would ever be any stability if he does come back. Is this really the end, Venus? I need a Reading!
"Looking forward to having your Love Card to bring me good, stable love energy.
From the bottom of my heart, Thanks so much for all that you do!"
9/7/13
"You are absolutely right. He does have a lot of growing to do. I don't want to suffer anymore. He always changes his mind. I want security! It's not going to be found with him. It's a pattern that has been in our relationship since day One. Hot, cold, hot, cold. When it's hot, it's amazing. But when it's cold...it's lonely and I feel so insecure.
"It's hard to let go because I know it could be good. But, as you told me, just one person can't work a relationship and no matter how great a man's potential we can't wait and hope he grows into it.
"Chas wants a perfect relationship that's easy... I told him I hope he finds what he is looking for. Good luck, dude! Jenny Green you have won a free reading with me.
I was hoping that this time would be different. It's such a lesson for me. :)
Thanks for your time, honesty and support.
9/21/13
"I have decided to cut Chas out. You were right when you suggested I cut him out so long ago, but I needed to make that decision myself. It's hard, but I think about his indecisiveness and how I wait around for him. He had all the control, and I never understood that until now. I long for what could be and hope in time this will subside.
l'm moving on.
Much love to you! Janice"
10/16/13
"Hi Venus, I will be contacting you soon to work on some Mentoring with you. Feeling like I need to work on my inner guidance more, not trusting it these days.
Side note: Chas called today to inform me that he is again seeing that girl (the one from my first Reading with you in March) Again, you were right. The asshole is true to his nature.
Love you, J."
